Therapist for Gay Men in NYC | Max Malitzky, PsyD
A space to understand yourself more deeply and build relationships that feel real, meaningful, and alive.
Being a gay man in NYC can mean navigating contradictions—freedom and pressure, connection and loneliness, visibility and invisibility.
Many of my patients describe feeling stuck between who they are and who they feel they should be.
Working with someone who understands these nuances offers space to explore:
Dating and intimacy
Feeling unseen or disconnected
Shame, desire, identity
Family dynamics and coming out
Self-worth, comparison, perfectionism
Longing for closeness but fearing vulnerability
This is a place where all parts of you are welcome.
Why Work With a Therapist Who Specializes in Gay Men?
This Work Is Especially Helpful For Gay Men Who Are…
Struggling with dating or relationships
Feeling lonely despite being successful
Managing anxiety or overthinking
Wanting intimacy but fearing getting too close
Processing shame or confusion around desire
Feeling split between different parts of themselves
Searching for a therapist who truly understands gay men
Whether you’ve been in therapy before or are starting fresh, there is room for you here.
A Contemporary Psychoanalytic Approach
My style is thoughtful, relational, and attuned.
We slow down enough to understand why certain emotional patterns repeat and what those patterns are protecting you from.
I help gay men:
Understand their emotional worlds
Build more meaningful relationships
Undo long-standing patterns
Feel more grounded and confident internally
Create space for growth and possibility
This work is deep and collaborative — not surface-level “quick fixes.”
In our work together, you’ll learn:
Why certain patterns keep showing up
How to feel more secure in yourself
How to bring more honesty and freedom into relationships
How to tolerate difficult feelings instead of avoiding them
How to move toward the relationships and life you want
Therapy is a space where your inner life becomes more understandable — and more fully lived.
A Contemporary Psychoanalytic Approach
Meet Max Malitzky, PsyD
I’m a clinical psychologist in New York City with extensive experience working with gay men, LGBTQ+ adults, and people navigating complex relational histories.
My approach is psychoanalytic, relational, and warm — aiming to help you understand yourself at a deeper level.
“I don’t believe in forcing change. I believe in helping you uncover the parts of yourself that have been waiting to emerge.”
Training & Approach:
PsyD in Clinical Psychology
Advanced training in contemporary psychoanalysis
LGBTQ+ clinical experience in medical and private settings
Virtual therapy available across NY State
Starting is simple
1. Book a free consultation
Share what you're looking for and ask any questions.
2. Meet virtually
I work with adults across New York State.
3. Begin therapy
Together, we create space for your emotional life to unfold.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you only work with gay men?
No — but I specialize in the unique concerns gay men often navigate.
Is the consultation free?
Yes. It helps us determine if we’re a good fit. I am able to refer you to other clinicians if in the event you would like to work with another individual.
Do you accept insurance?
I’m out-of-network, but I provide documentation for reimbursement.
Do you offer virtual therapy?
Yes — sessions take place via secure video.
If You’re Ready, Let’s Begin.
Therapy can become a transformative place to feel seen, understood, and emotionally grounded.